Yeah, I would agree woth birds2, this seems to be a complete over-reaction. After all in your very first post you said you received a full apology from the crew member and the caption and that you were prepared to lay the matter to rest. But, it seems as your subsequent posts testify, you are still extermely pi$$ed of about the incident.
**** happens!
After all, I'm sure the ticked you bought had sometihng like seat 12A on it, and not JUMPSEAT rubber stamped all over it.
Jumpseats are only favours after all, and you can't really complainand sulk in other parts of life when someone refuses you a favour.