I think ExSimGuy may have missed the fact that you are a guy (hence the 'steward') but even so I think his recommendations may be the most fitting. Obviously you are just trying get every insecure homophobic pilot on your case or you just didn't know any better. If you are a woman and were just using the broader sense of the word steward then I would suggest that you reassess your judgement of the FO's feelings towards you. Most pilots would jump all over any FA that displayed the tiniest amount attraction towards them unless they were already committed. (Come on! Hold the laughter down there are some out there with morals! I just don't know any....)
And all the girlies say I'm pretty fly for a white guy......