RyanPax
Maybe if you take that flight every day for the next year you might meet her again
As for the two year old needing the toilet I have young children and they are all forced to use the loo before boarding an aircraft, getting in the car, leaving the house etc. That said having young children is hard work, maybe the lady in question arrived late and didn't have time. One thing anyone with kids will tell you is "be prepared" Asking the cabin crew to dispose of the end product was definately out of order though, most parents would not even dream of asking such a question.
I find most airlines fairly good at dealing with children though the continental based airlines are definately better than the British ones (BA excepted) though this just reflects the continentals general acceptance of children. Here in France I can take my kids anywhere, restaurants, cafes etc while in the UK I get positively scowled at when bringing kids into certain places