Pete. .This is a truly dreadful situation and I wish you and yours the very best for the future. .Strangly enough I was talking to a friend before you started this thread who is a training Captain with his airline.. .He stated to me that he was deeply concerned because a female F/O in his company was way below standard and known to be by most of the line Captains. However everybody is scared to do anything because they know she will scream sexual harassment or discrimination if anyone makes a stand. Worse still he suspects she may be sleeping with an extremely senior pilot within the company who will protect her.. .So this is still going on. Maybe the only solution is to have either all male or all female flight decks and companies need to make an effort to have at least one female training captain who could tell the truth without fear of reprecussions.