Pete:. .. .It is obvious from all the responses that you have gained something money can never buy, the support and respect of your colleauges and your wife.. .. .Now in my opinion for the good of all our female colleauges who are unfairly tarred by this one person I would suggest that there are many out there who can name her, I think that would be the proper thing to do.. .. ................... . <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="biggrin.gif" /> The hardest thing about flying is knowing when to say no. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="biggrin.gif" />