'There are certainly benefits, but the cost can be high too; you are expected to act a certain way - often contrary to normal human behaviour, such as eating an apple with a knife and fork or being nice to people you hate. It makes 'them' better than 'us' enlisted lot and far better leaders in battle...apparently.'
Can't figure out how to put this as a quote. This is rubbish. Officers today can be all sorts of people - eating an apple isn't the key. Trying to motivate people with more work and more commitments, when the social life is less of a bonus is a lot of the issue - but that isn't unique to the military - just a challenge. However, if you are up for it and like working (a lot) and like being involved in some fascinating worlds - then this is a good career. When you reach the limit of what you want/floats your boat - then leave. Don't stick around whingeing. It's that simple. Enjoy!