a320rider I feel you have some very good points but put them over in a very bad way.
Your current position is very concerning for me as a wannabe who is also putting up the family home as a guarantee to finance the training.
I agree with some of the previously mentioned postings that for a wannabe it is a very good idea to be in employment before starting training, in case you don't walk straight into an airline job.
I am currently an engineer and keeping my options open of going back into this field after training as a contingency plan. I couldn't live with myself if I wasn't able to afford the repayments of the loan I am taking out for training and the family home was at risk!