Oh my goodness!!
The tears welled up in my eyes as I read your post.
I can not put in to words how much of a terrible tragedy this must be for fellow BAers, and this lady's family and friends.
I truly wish her family, friends and colleagues all the love and support in the world at this difficult time.
My love, prayers and thoughts are wish you.
xx
P.S. I absolutely agree with you Tight_slot ... deeply uncomfortable ... I could not put in to words how I felt ... and feel (even though I have not met the people or person/s involved) ... but I just wanted to share my support in some way.