MUM,
Sorry but I must have eaten way too many of those magic pills in dark rooms etc etc, because I missed the intent of your post on my first second and third readings, it was a tad escoteric for me im afraid!!
anyways, I also now know too not to shorten your name to softon, but abbreviating it to just "mum" doesent sit well with me......do u mind if I call you MUMMY
