stillanfo,
Betelgeuse has spoken what the majority of 89ers feel. We bare NO malice to any AN pilot who is not on the "list". For the ones on the list, well that's a different story. Your husband will have no problems with us if he goes O/S unless he is a brainwashed apologist for scabs.
Your post reminded me of how my wife felt in 89 but we survived and eventually prospered. I'm sure you and your husband will too.