and so is balls!
Don't you also think that "balls" is a bit strong referring to the opinions of a kind and thoughtful man?
I refer to the man who interviewed me when I had on the table a $108k engineering job with superannuation. He told me then it's not the car you drive, nor the wristwatch you wear nor how long is it till your first command. He used the words "Vocation not Vacation" and left me only his card.
My fiancee and I talked it over, rang him and the upshot was we spent a family weekend at their place
Hope I've helped.
James