Back to the original topic:
I flew with a female captain for 8 years, she was also my CPL and IFR teacher.
The most capable Pilot I ever met, always cool,calm and composed. When I made my captains rating, she supervised me - and she was able to cope with all the smaller and bigger problem that I developed during that time. Females in aviation ? Sure !
If, for whatever reason, she doesnīt WANT to fulfill her duties (Baggage, Preflight, etc) - sack her, if she CANīT - help her. (just like you would if your male mate has a sore back)