I wouldn't hesitate to recommend it. Everyone knows what goes on in Pattaya but it's not as in ya face as people make out. There are undoubtedlly places where you can view lewd acts and participate, but the management certainly wont let kidz near the place. If you want filth it's there, if you don't then it's easily avoided. I've taken my family there 2 times and we go again in august. My kidz luv sitting at the bars playing games with the bar girls and they haven't a clue what the girls there for. The girls know when to be discreeet. Go for it, you won't regret it.