It may sound harsh but I doubt that the RAF are interested. Why would they be unless it directly affects your effectiveness or employability.
I am not saying that I agree with that line as I can imagine how difficult a circumstance you probably find yourself in. Its good to see that your local management is supoporting you in some way.
Several years ago I had a neighbour who was army. When his marriage broke up he gained custody of his children and had to leave the service as the army wouldn't take his situation into account.
PS 27 years in, married for 24 and still going.