Blueloo,
I find that very hard to believe that they ran out of your meal choice and you were only the second passenger served. We aren't that depraved and cold hearted at QF that we take the passengers meals before they've been served. We're lucky enough as part of our agreement to be supplied with business class meals as our crew meals and generally a lot of the time they are the same as the pax meals anyway, so there would be no need for crew to take your meal in the first place.
I agree though, a lot of crew, not just at QF need an attitude adjustment. Sometimes on the cart i cringe at what some F/A's say to pax. At the end of the day there is no need to be rude (crew or pax), infact you'd be causing yourself more hassles. All you need to do is to think how lucky you are to have the job you've got and how many people would jump in your shoes in a split second.
Oz