Birky,
Going back to your original message which started the thread I would think the only constructive route you can take from here is with Trevor himself as it was his e-mail to which you seem to have taken offence. You have received a lot of input from other contributors which albeit genuine, hasn't really solved much.
So the question you have to be able to answer is whether or not you could be happy at EFT, which you need to be if you are going to be receptive to your training, or will it always be in the back of your mind that you are being ripped off/held back/overlooked because Trevor has apparently taken a dislike to you. If the latter is the case then that surely has to rule them out as one of your choices. Not necessarily a reflection on them or you, but you're just not compatible with each other.
IMHO to continue this thread in its present tone is just going to make you look worse in their eyes and probably them in yours so bite the bullet.