Hey EF2020,
If you’re still adamant on becoming a Pilot in the Mil why not ask to take the tests again in a year’s time, as long as your age isn't a factor you should be alright.
I'm 23, turning 24 in July and have re-applied for a Commission with the RN for aircrew. On Mon 18/4 I go to RAF Cranwell for my 3rd attempt at FATS!!!!!!
This will actually be my fourth time there as I visited in 97 for my RN Gliding Scholarship, 99 for FATS which I failed miserably, 02 where I passed for Pilot with an apparently amazing score (Go Figure???) but failed Observer.
In order for me to get another go I had to write a very detailed letter to the Admiralty covering aspects such as, why they should let me take the tests again, what I can offer the RN, Chronologically ordering events such as my attendances on RN Gliding Scholarship, Staff College Sea Day Visit and POAC at RNAS Culdrose. Eventually ending the letter detailing my desires to become an RN Officer FIRST and WHY, then why I want to fly with the FAA. It worked as they obviously see something in me of potential.
My advice is if you want something..... and you want it REAL BAD (like me) then put that Passion and Determination into a drive and a will to succeed. I think that sort of attitude will get you anything you want in this world.
All the very best with your applications and Good Luck for the Future.
John