Don
Hope all is well!
I don't think people think that they're owed anything (apart from a gratuity!!) just that it would appear that it would be prudent to understand why certain people leave....or then again perhaps not:-)
I certainly don't think i'm 'owed' anything - just the right to sort out my resettlement without the RAF bleating about loyalty etc.
They've shown their 'loyalty' to me on numerous official occasions so I think it balances out.