Mil Experience
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It amazes me to see how narrow minded and simplistic a person can be.
The truth of the matter is that there are various shades to every pilot. Ex Mil or civvy is irrelevant. Finally the person defines and decides what image he or she projects. Subsequently one suffers or enjoys the fruits of your self definition.
Just because you could not get across to your ex mil FJ associate doesnt mean u can paint everyone in the same colour.
Just for info self with 21 years in the mil -various roles as FJ and now 4 years in an airline as captain. I did feel that the military was exceedingly challenging at every step. However in civvy the challenge comes at certain times neverthless both experiences are/were interesting.
All I can say is grow up and get a life!