I don't think Kap M ever REALLY attacks TNO - I think, like NORMAL ADULTS, they merely have heated discussions when differing viewpoints and opinions are raised. I myself have had mutually disagreeable posts with TNO, but we always kept it "clean" merely differing with each other. Differing opinion is NOT attack.
Problem here is, that the "attack radar" is constantly on with a LOT of posters - myself included at times - they think people are affronting them if they disagree. Human psychology.
There is not much anyone can do to change the attitudes in australian aviation. WE (non scab) will NEVER get over it per se, and THEY (the "heroes") won't either, for different, albeit similar in context, reasons.
You learn to live with it, as much as it tastes like crap!
To coin an old TAA slogan " Vive la differance!"