Jellycopter
No need to get so defensive.
No-one who hasn't flown one has said thay are a problem to fly! The only comments made about performance have been that they have limitations with weight. All the comments have been statements of fact such as the work involved, the accident and mechanical problem stats.
Trouble is that owning a rotorway is far far more than flying it.
To someone like me with limited mechanical skills and even more limited time the rest of your post is vindication of the reluctance to buy one.
You may well be right about the flight characteristics but my choice after doing a couple of years research was based on everything BUT the flight handling because they were all more important at the time.