Barshaker - excellent. I don't disagree with most of what you say. However, from a personal perspective, I will not drink for a considerable period prior to flight.
Yes I do have a licence and as you put it, I get very close to planes. Photography is but a hobby.
My father flew from 1940-2001; I can't emulate his achievements, however, I have at least been able to exercise the privilege of the licence for quite a few years now.
I have been to various social gatherings until 02:00 and been airborne by 07:00 with the partygoers - that's life, just doesn't mean I want to be the one that gets caught out.
Zero tolerance = Nil confusion