Hi Bommer - yeah thanks for that. With regards to the advertising I suppose it may have looked a little suspish - but I have used the forums long before this post and only posted the link because I believed the ringtone would have been available - dont forget there are literally thousands and thousands of ringtones websites (all pretty much offering the same stuff).
With regards to the attatchment - it depends what it is - if it is a ringtones or something similar the usually it can be transferred by infra red (if you have it on your pc of course) but most likely you will need the cable. You can buy these off the net or straight from Nokia for a few quid.
Best wishes
Maz