witchdoctor,
Very Nicely put. It is not that we don't believe that we shouldn't be treated in the manner you describe. It is just that those of us who have been around the block a few times, realise that this isn't the way it happens !
(addendum) My wife has just read this and has asked me to add ;
" Whats the difference ! He expects to be treated like that at home !"
