Even in the fishead arena I know that a hairy is an RAF officer who has got commissioned from the ranks - just like a "Yardie" in my service. Most of them are awesome people who, having seen the other side of the coin,display leadership of the utmost quality. There are others, of course, who are different .....
.... a typical response from a bully is to resort to violence. In the situation described above, and as a holder of the Queen's Commission, you should have the intelligence to politely argue your point of view, or walk away, not threaten to beat 10 bells of sh*t out of someone.
Pathetic