Unfortunately, no matter how much we talk about "it's ok to not be ok" "it's good to talk" etc, things will never change. People who have seen and done awful things, or are just a bit off balanced, will always do this sort of thing. The sad thing about this particular instance is I had quite a few friends and numerous colleagues from the RAF Regiment who have taken their own lives post HERRICK, but it takes a VSO to threaten it for the RAF to be suddenly concerned and making Facebook posts about his status.