100% agree with Speed_Trim_Fail & spitfirejock offering some very sound advice you should listen to & investigate further.
As for EASA/UK ATPLs - most students will pass these either via full-time or distance learning study. The biggest shock is the volume of mostly high class rubbish that you have to learn in a relatively short period of time 80% of which you shall never use again & don't get me going on the standard of exam questions. You have to accept they are an entrance exam hoop to leap through to becoming a commercial pilot, put your social life on hold & just get through them asap then move on to the fun stuff.
Remember flying is supposed to be fun, if not you shouldn't be doing it.