It’s a thousands times worse than a criminal record. It’s the sex offenders register. Flight school wouldn’t touch you. All those young impressionable adults and in some cases under 18’s.
Again, and I hate to beat a dead horse but… this doesn’t make sense. Every post you sound like you have given up for something that almost everyone on here has said is an issue that any half assed lawyer could get you out of. There is so much more to this than you are saying, that makes you so downbeat.