"Muted", "Fear", all a question of awareness and been around for as long as I care to. Early days of this site, I fell about at one poster replying to another said;" I think I know who you are & I think I know where you live " ! We then all know about the unmentionable. Still the case. Joining my outfit, I was told to watch what I said (always a blabber) in the pubs & clubs. Better to be one of the invisible crowd. Couldn't help it though and after one spat, said to a colleague in the supermarket ;" I'm in trouble, can you get me into the RF ?............could still here him laughing long after getting into my car.........