Well, personally I say good luck to her!
"I want the Royal Navy to accept that it is not above the law and introduce policies that prove it is prepared to show more care towards the welfare needs of its employees in respect of work-life balance."
Absolutely right. The real issue is that the undersize, overstetched and generally abused UK Armed Forces are just too small now to be able to exercise any flexibility in such cases.
Much as I deplore the blatant tactical brat-breeding which I've come across in the past, this lady does have a point. I hope that the suits in the Monastery of Definance are forecd to buck their ideas up and stop treating people with all the managerial skills of a Victorian mill owner!