Melchett, no disrespect, when did you go through training? At my time it was when we delivered our calling cards.
As for Mrs Sqn Ldr, wife of a friend at Mess coffee morning went to join group of wives of similar age. She was directed to join the fg off/flt lt wives. Indeed much later Mrs PN was told not to join a group of 'execs' wives. Later, after Mrs Stn Cdr became Mrs ex-SC and took up a job shelf stacking in Budgens it was a pleasure stepping over her.
I think she did it deliberately as we knew who she was and how it would reflect on him. He still made 3*.