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Old 25th Apr 2011, 19:44
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...but did you get a shag for buying the cabinets?

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Old 25th Apr 2011, 22:31
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Both Mrs Blenkinsop (AKA Jasmine Skyjuice) and I are pilots. So - pas de probleme. Marry a pilot.

Mind you, Mrs B also likes horses. They're pretty much like aeroplanes - always being repaired, scary, unpredictable and just as expensive.
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My missus loves flying so don't have the problems some of you have.............

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Old 26th Apr 2011, 02:56
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My wife likes flying with me but only when its nice and calm and sunny.... so i tell her i need LOADS of practice flying in the nasty stuff.

Flying with the wife can be fun but a little interesting as she considers anything past a medium turn as aerobatics and 3500ft AGL is too low.

My wife also has a great sense of humour and she knows a C172 for an hour is cheaper than a hooker.

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Old 26th Apr 2011, 07:08
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Worst thing about flying the wife was that I ended up having to pay for the whole trip, the teas and bacon butties. In ten years of flying her, she never once put her hand in her pocket.

And once the divorce came along she very nearly took the aeroplane as well!
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 07:19
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My wife also has a great sense of humour and she knows a C172 for an hour is cheaper than a hooker.
That is a very good "down under" attitude
And once the divorce came along she very nearly took the aeroplane as well!
The plane will be a matrimonial asset, unless owned by your business, but then business itself will also be valued for divorce purposes. The thoroughness of the valuation will vary, however.

This is the big catch for a businessman marrying: even a small business can easily be valued at as much as everything else put together, so the businessman comes out keeping the business (the ex wife rarely wants the business) and losing everything else. That was what I got, back in 1999, though I have since rebuilt OK.

However the ex wife cannot just point at a particular asset and demand it.

Unless there are children, in which case she more or less can do exactly that... but she is playing for high stakes because many men then just say 'sod the kids'.

I have a feeling that many men get spectacularly bad advice in these matters. Hardly suprising, since most "family law" lawyers are female and bitter man-haters (and are mostly incompetent anyway, by being too aggressive to deliver a reasonable deal) and many of the few male lawyers in that field are anti-men also. You absolutely must use a male solicitor, to have any chance. 12 years on, I have started writing up some notes on this stuff

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Old 26th Apr 2011, 08:42
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In my miserable dating history i have actually managed to meet and date some very attractive women. In the end i actually married one who has a PPL, who likes large ridiculous cars and B&O televisions(the bigger the better). I'm still working on the girl girl thing.

Let your head do the wife selecting, and your balls everything else i guess.
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 12:52
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When you think about it, PompeyPaul does not have much to live for.
No flying and supports Portsmouth..
Could it get any worse?
Yeah, I'll bet his other half drags him off to Ikea whenever she wants!
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 13:01
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Oh dear, you lot: "THE" wife? I always refer to mine as "MY" wife, or by her name. I wonder what your wives call you? "That prat" perhaps?

Some of you sure have some poor marriages. My wife and I have been married 44 years and never had a row. She supports my hobbies and interests and I support hers. What's with the "blazing row" nonsense? Work together; accept that each has ideas that may not appeal to the other but we are all different so you have to find a compromise.

We have done everything together and sympathise greatly with those who do not...
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 13:34
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"I had everything I wanted until my wife find out"

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Old 26th Apr 2011, 13:53
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I don't understand why your presence would be required for the choosing of a kitchen......not even if the house was being selected at the same time!
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 14:03
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My wife asked me over the weekend when we could go flying again, she is very keen & never complains about the time I spend on flying. She certainly feels no financial impact as we have separate bank accounts!

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Old 26th Apr 2011, 15:04
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Oh dear, you lot: "THE" wife? I always refer to mine as "MY" wife, or by her name. I wonder what your wives call you? "That prat" perhaps?
I agree; it is an odd way to refer to one's dearest.

Mind you, if you listen in to a fairly average group of women, they do slag off their husbands pretty badly. Maybe it is just trendy to do that but it makes one wonder why they don't simply go batting for the other side and avoid men completely.
She certainly feels no financial impact as we have separate bank accounts!
That's a good way to do it, but it works only if your wife/GF is financially independent. That's what we have, and we have a joint account for the household etc stuff. Most women (even these days) are not independent to that degree which is why most of them married in the first place: for security.

I think that a bloke with a costly hobby and a wife has the following options:

1. Have a wife who is financially independent

2. Have a wife who is extremely tolerant

3. Spend a lot of money on his wife (and then it doesn't matter whether she is 1. or 2. above)
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 15:08
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a C172 for an hour is cheaper than a hooker
Blimey. It's expensive round your way. Dolly Clackett just down the road from here will sort it for a fiver.
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 15:12
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Dolly.... you mean this one?
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 15:26
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I'm very lucky I guess, she is finacially independent, owns the flat we live in, with a tiny mortgage & even offered to support me if I end up out of work.

Along with being tolerant of my hobbies, she joins in & has been to the Nurburgring several times, enjoying every minute (well apart from 165 mph on the long straight). She is looking forward to the flying trips this summer & is proud of me gaining my PPL recently. Maybe I'm lucky or maybe I picked a good girl & didn't put up with any bollox.

I totally agree with you on the female sport of slagging ones husband off, (most) women do not respect men, we are portrayed as idiots on television & films, just watch some of the adverts where the dad is a clown & the mum is the brains of the family. The pendulum has swung so far in the other direction that men are now seen as the weaker species, IMHO.
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 15:40
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IO540 Can you fit her in your plane ? what ever floats your boat
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 15:56
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She'd "go" in a Cessna 182 though.

That's the whole point of a 182.
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 16:01
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Dolly.... you mean this one?
Crikey IO, it's her. New teeth though - didn't have any last time I saw her. All the better, some say.
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 16:16
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i had an argument with my missus which just finished
last night, she asked what was on TV.
"apart from the dust" I asked?

That was when the argument started.....
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