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Hi All,
Another question for the community of pprune..
My 5yr old son is showing zilch interest in things aeronautical
, and I must admit I feel slightly dissapointed. I mean, how can PowerRangers be more interesting???
I haven't pushed it all, apart from pointing out airliners in/out of Heathrow as they pass over and asking him if wants "to drive an aeroplane when he's grown-up" (the answer was no of course...train "captain" is the job to have of course)...
I know its early days, but at 5 I had a very strong interest, as perhaps many pilots did.
Should I take hm up? perhaps look for that spark of interest and carefully kindle it?? If so how? My approach at the moment is leave well alone and if he becomes interested then I know its for the right reasons....
Has anyone else been here?!
Anyway back to yet another game of football in the garden.....England V Italy we are today apparently....
Cheers...
Another question for the community of pprune..
My 5yr old son is showing zilch interest in things aeronautical
, and I must admit I feel slightly dissapointed. I mean, how can PowerRangers be more interesting???I haven't pushed it all, apart from pointing out airliners in/out of Heathrow as they pass over and asking him if wants "to drive an aeroplane when he's grown-up" (the answer was no of course...train "captain" is the job to have of course)...
I know its early days, but at 5 I had a very strong interest, as perhaps many pilots did.
Should I take hm up? perhaps look for that spark of interest and carefully kindle it?? If so how? My approach at the moment is leave well alone and if he becomes interested then I know its for the right reasons....
Has anyone else been here?!
Anyway back to yet another game of football in the garden.....England V Italy we are today apparently....
Cheers...
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I guess the phrase "you can draw a horse to his water, but you can't make him drink it" comes to mind.
It must be a tad disappointing, but I wouldn't force the issue, you have the right idea by leaving it alone, I guess you could try and get him more actively involved, rather than pointing at the ones in the sky, take him to Heathrow and show him how big and powerful they are etc.
About taking him up, this is a difficult one and probably only you can judge, I asked my 2½yr old if she wanted to come to the airport with daddy to see the plane he flies, she jumped at the chance and was very excited, as soon as I wanted to sit her in the seat for a closer look she turned into a jibbering wreck.
I'd say just keep going as you are, if he likes them great, if not, so be it
I guess the phrase "you can draw a horse to his water, but you can't make him drink it" comes to mind.
It must be a tad disappointing, but I wouldn't force the issue, you have the right idea by leaving it alone, I guess you could try and get him more actively involved, rather than pointing at the ones in the sky, take him to Heathrow and show him how big and powerful they are etc.
About taking him up, this is a difficult one and probably only you can judge, I asked my 2½yr old if she wanted to come to the airport with daddy to see the plane he flies, she jumped at the chance and was very excited, as soon as I wanted to sit her in the seat for a closer look she turned into a jibbering wreck.
I'd say just keep going as you are, if he likes them great, if not, so be it
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Got the same problem, neither my son or daughter both 16 shortly have any interest in aviation at all. Very dissapointing! I have tried to get them interested even offered to teach them to fly but zilch.
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The odd airshow visit plus seeking out an enthusiastic ATC squadron might work. My daughter loves aeros in AEF Grobs and winchlaunches at the Mynd.
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I told my boys that if either of them ever found the sound of the local DC-3 passing by, on final or climb-out, that they'd be out on their ear.
They actually have a healthy interest in aeroplanes without any pressure (other than the above) from me.
The industry is such that I wouldn't want them to follow my path. Most important for them to find their own way.
Of course, if I can't stop them then I will offer them my advice. Even then, they'll have to make it on their own or they won't appreciate their achievements.
They actually have a healthy interest in aeroplanes without any pressure (other than the above) from me.
The industry is such that I wouldn't want them to follow my path. Most important for them to find their own way.
Of course, if I can't stop them then I will offer them my advice. Even then, they'll have to make it on their own or they won't appreciate their achievements.
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Let him do what HE wants to do. It's his life, not yours. Did you do what your parents wanted, or become interested in what interested them?
It sounds like your kid's got a mind of his own, which at the age of five is great. I'd be far more worried if he just followed what his parents did, without question. Do you want to produce a well-rounded person who can think for himself, or a carbon copy of you? I'd say leave him be, and only take him flying if that's what he really, really wants.
It sounds like your kid's got a mind of his own, which at the age of five is great. I'd be far more worried if he just followed what his parents did, without question. Do you want to produce a well-rounded person who can think for himself, or a carbon copy of you? I'd say leave him be, and only take him flying if that's what he really, really wants.
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I often see this when parents bring their kiddies up to the flightdeck after landing because the 'kids' want to have a look. Usually the child looks thoroughly un-interested whilst the father is like a giddy kid asking all of the questions. The other day when this happened I asked the child (about 5-6 years old) what he wanted to be when he grew up and he replied 'a red double decker bus driver', made me laugh especially since the father was obviously the one who wanted to see the flight deck. I guess if kids aren't interested then no point in pushing it.
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I'd trade him in for a new one......just kidding......
....yeah i have to say that I am the only one in my family that loves flying in fact my sister is terrified to fly and although I'm an airline pilot I'm still yet to persuade her to come on one of my flights, probably says something about my flying....
....yeah i have to say that I am the only one in my family that loves flying in fact my sister is terrified to fly and although I'm an airline pilot I'm still yet to persuade her to come on one of my flights, probably says something about my flying....
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Umm, looking at it another way -- I've loved all things aviation since age of 5-ish although my ground-hog parents have never understood my passion for flying and aircraft or why they have rarely seen me in spring and summer. Step-father is now 82 and learning to fly -- they get there in the end 
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You can't make them - I'm lucky, in that my 3-year-old loves flying and can't get enough. Recently he made his first trip with just me, so he sat in the front, and was as good as gold.
I have, though, following that trip, made a vow not to attempt single-pilot IFR with just him - trying to monitor two radio frequencies simultaneously*, plus his constant questions and 'look, daddy, there's the top of that cloud. Whee!!!!' (as we bump through it) was just a little more than I could manage comfortably! (Also, he loves the sound of his voice through the intercom and sings himself songs as we go along...)
*serves me right - when the nice lady from Brize said 'are you able to contact Gloucester on box 2, they appear to have instrument traffic in their overhead' I should have said no, but I wanted to show off that I had a fancy audio panel...
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I have, though, following that trip, made a vow not to attempt single-pilot IFR with just him - trying to monitor two radio frequencies simultaneously*, plus his constant questions and 'look, daddy, there's the top of that cloud. Whee!!!!' (as we bump through it) was just a little more than I could manage comfortably! (Also, he loves the sound of his voice through the intercom and sings himself songs as we go along...)
*serves me right - when the nice lady from Brize said 'are you able to contact Gloucester on box 2, they appear to have instrument traffic in their overhead' I should have said no, but I wanted to show off that I had a fancy audio panel...
Tim
I know this is rather baffling, but there are people out there - perfectly balanced and otherwise rational people - that don't especially like flying, and don't want to be pilots. My two sons - now in their twenties - quite like a jolly, so long as it's not too long, but find the idea of flying as a hobby about as interesting as knitting, stamp collecting or train spotting (as challenging and fulfilling as I'm sure they all are).
I know it's hard, but I suggest trying to come to terms with the personal insult and humiliation involved when the fruits of one's loins don't want to fly planes.
I know it's hard, but I suggest trying to come to terms with the personal insult and humiliation involved when the fruits of one's loins don't want to fly planes.
My father and step father were both pilots. I failed on colour blindness but I still went PPL. I have always been especially careful not to push my personal ambitions on my children, never said how great, no big family history thing. When I built Jemima in the garage I was mildly upset that my children (not one of the five boys at home) took the slightest interest, never held a bolt, bucked a rivet, din't even come in and watch.
Number one son graduated last year. Joined the Canadian Airforce, now waiting pilot training. Number two son busy trying to sort out his medical etc during his last year at college, will not countenance being anything but a pilot.
Funny old world.
(Edited to say)
(And I am just the proudest dad ever.)
Number one son graduated last year. Joined the Canadian Airforce, now waiting pilot training. Number two son busy trying to sort out his medical etc during his last year at college, will not countenance being anything but a pilot.
Funny old world.
(Edited to say)
(And I am just the proudest dad ever.)
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Both my kids (age 6 and 4) love coming to the flying club for lunch and can't wait for me to get my PPL back so that they can come flying (Mum is not so sure...)
My son got an official Red Arrows flying suit for his 4th birthday on Saturday, and wants to wear it with his 'Tom Cruise' flying jacket next time we go for lunch.....
I don't ram it down their throats (especially my Daughter) but they enjoy the 1:1 time, they also like coming out to my workshop to do projects, both avaiation related and otherwise. My Daughter has just finished a 1:72 Sea King and is currently painting a 'Bug Thermometer'
My son got an official Red Arrows flying suit for his 4th birthday on Saturday, and wants to wear it with his 'Tom Cruise' flying jacket next time we go for lunch.....
I don't ram it down their throats (especially my Daughter) but they enjoy the 1:1 time, they also like coming out to my workshop to do projects, both avaiation related and otherwise. My Daughter has just finished a 1:72 Sea King and is currently painting a 'Bug Thermometer'
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You either have the bug or you don't - it can't be forced upon someone.
My lad was very interested up to about age 14, then he developed a passion for music and is now studying music at Uni and wants to become an orchestra conductor.
Whatever our offspring develop a passion for, I think they should be supported because how many of us are lucky enough to be working in a job that we actually really enjoy. I am and I feel very, very fortunate
The opposite is apparent sometimes in our job. We get cadets who have left University, saw the pilot thing offered, either had the money or got the money and now sit in the right hand seat bored or totally uninterested in what they are doing.
What a waste - I blame the HR/PC brigade that do the selection, they may have an ology or score high in tests, but did they ever have their fingers chopped up starting a DC Sabre on a cold and wet field only to watch the control line aeroplane perform a beautiful arc into the ground before smashing to pieces on it's first flight - Eh ?
My lad was very interested up to about age 14, then he developed a passion for music and is now studying music at Uni and wants to become an orchestra conductor.
Whatever our offspring develop a passion for, I think they should be supported because how many of us are lucky enough to be working in a job that we actually really enjoy. I am and I feel very, very fortunate
The opposite is apparent sometimes in our job. We get cadets who have left University, saw the pilot thing offered, either had the money or got the money and now sit in the right hand seat bored or totally uninterested in what they are doing.
What a waste - I blame the HR/PC brigade that do the selection, they may have an ology or score high in tests, but did they ever have their fingers chopped up starting a DC Sabre on a cold and wet field only to watch the control line aeroplane perform a beautiful arc into the ground before smashing to pieces on it's first flight - Eh ?
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"but did they ever have their fingers chopped up starting a DC Sabre on a cold and wet field only to watch the control line aeroplane perform a beautiful arc into the ground before smashing to pieces on it's first flight - Eh ? "
Yep, Cox .049, C/L Cosmic Wind, fingers chopped whilst running engine in, 1 flight of half a circle, up, stall, vertically down....
go forward over 25 years....setting up new RC heli, holding it by the tail, Gyro twitches and tailrotor takes 3 gouges out of knuckles..
Yep, Cox .049, C/L Cosmic Wind, fingers chopped whilst running engine in, 1 flight of half a circle, up, stall, vertically down....
go forward over 25 years....setting up new RC heli, holding it by the tail, Gyro twitches and tailrotor takes 3 gouges out of knuckles..
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Bandit,
I had no interest in aviation either at the age of five (but by the age of about ten I did), so things might change. I was more interested at the time in taking Granny's television to bits and then putting it back together again...
Thinking about it, I didn't end up doing much that my parents were interested in - your lad will find his own thing to entertain himself, so it will be fun for you to discover what he does!
T.
I had no interest in aviation either at the age of five (but by the age of about ten I did), so things might change. I was more interested at the time in taking Granny's television to bits and then putting it back together again...
Thinking about it, I didn't end up doing much that my parents were interested in - your lad will find his own thing to entertain himself, so it will be fun for you to discover what he does!
T.