Food for thought....
 

First of all, AeroAngel is NOT a pseudo name for me. I wouldn't post so much crap. But my ISP address is San Francisco lol. Only so me and the hubby can visit all the porn sites and use our Apple TV and Netflix thru a VPN.

This thread began by a pilot needing advice regarding an Ex Wife. What happened during the marriage, is not relevant. It didn't work out. Bottom line.

Here are the facts.

1. If you have children. PAY YOUR DAMN CHILD SUPPORT ! I got news for ya.. the 25 to 30 % you pay, does NOT cover even 20% of what it takes to raise a child(ren). Please don't assume that CS covers birthday gifts, school outings, new clothes for school etc.

2. Aero, that is great that your marriage works. But honey, I'm a pilot's wife too and its no picnic. And there are no guarantees in life. How many of their wives said the same thing? They may have said the same thing you just said until.. ( you get the drift). Your perception of your marriage is yours, your husband will probably tell it much differently when in the cockpit or over a few beers on a layover with the guys. And Pprune is very much the same. Boys talking boy stuff. I can assure you, some of the same guys saying "I'm single, I'm loving it and beat their chest and swing from a tree as they say it don't prefer it. Let them come home to an empty house, hang out with their friends who have a lovely wife, great kids, the biggest bbq grill on the block and the family dog. It's not that great either. Especially 90 hours a month. There are the man whores though, but they usually code ( full arrest aka heart attack) in flight, leaving open the next upgrade :) ( nevermind that part, what a way to die!!!!).

3. Gentlemen, there are pros and cons to dating women from any country. If you think its great having an Asian wife because she's so " easy" and not westernized? Don't confuse a successful marriage to someone so submissive. You're not there when she cries to her family and friends that her needs are not met. They aren't all about having a western husband who makes alot of money. You honestly think they wanna massage you every freaking night ? Nope. They don't. They do it out of fear they will be sent back to their country and back to the **** hole 3rd world environment you pulled them from. Why else do you think they are with you? You honestly think the 20 to 40 year age difference is a turn on? Seriously? The massage you get, is so that you will 1. fall asleep and she can go back to talking to her family back home or 2. Get you worked up so much, that when sex begins.. BANG! 5 minutes later... she's .. yep you guessed it back on the phone with her family where she wants to be. I have many many many asian friends who are wives and gf's of pilots and 99% of the time, they talk more crap behind your back that last longer than the long haul flight from DXB to IAH, SFO, LAX etc.

** please not though, NOT ALL ASIAN WOMEN FEEL THAT WAY and NOT ALL PILOTS FEEL THAT WAY. I've met a few pilots who are married to asian women and the wives are happy. And the husbands treat them like WIVES and the marriages work because they are WIVES, not Asian WIVES !

4. Get back to letting us wives know how to squeeze you dry if we decide to leave :) I never learned so much. J/K ! If my marriage goes sour.. it won't end in divorce I can tell you that :) " it's cheaper to keep her" says him. " Good morning darling! try this new coffee creamer, taste just like almonds :) Says me, the medical professional :)

Some of us are in the middle east BECAUSE we pay our child support. 33% of your GROSS income {the oz 'apportionment'} leaves you living like a pauper (the 1-bdr-flat-dads)- 1/3 for tax, 1/3 for CS, and eek out an existence on the rest.

Couldn't agree more varigflier- have gone asian and would NEVER go back. Where did we go so wrong in the west?

Roll on the 18th birthdays.

Some sad middle-aged balding men here on this forum who WON'T GET ANYTHING BUT ASIAN:ugh::ugh::ugh::ugh:

For f*cks sake, what attracted you to your original wife in the first place? Was it 'cos she was YELLOw?

Compliant?


Stupid???

I doubt the above - but it's what you're going for now:hmm::hmm::hmm:

That's entirely true. WK. However, after finding my good-looking, intelligent, WHITE wife turned out to be a self-obsessed/interested frump expecting a totally compliant husband/lifestyle facilitator...I decided to be happy. Wouldn't expect you to understand. But I CERTAINLY don't want to hook up with yet another bitter, middle-aged frump seeking a pay check- which is what I am able to attract in 'white society' (as you correctly surmise). I am SO much happier now.
I expect you think you are insulting me? How many beautiful, young, intelligent white girls do you attract? Given the choice, what would you choose? The sanctimonious often haven't found themselves in the situation they pontificate on.

BTW; you do yourself a disservice by characterising asian women as stupid.

Entirely your own fault Ferris, you followed your dick and got married before you had taken the trouble to properly know your wife, no one else to blame but yourself, impetuous youth!

A fairy tale I heard recently...
 

Once upon a time, a Prince asked a beautiful Princess "Will you marry me?" The
Princess said "NO." And the Prince lived happily ever after

... and rode motorcycles and ****** skinny big titted broads and hunted and raced cars
and went to naked bars and dated women half his age and drank whiskey, beer
and Captain Morgan and never heard bitching and never paid child support or
alimony and ****** cheerleaders and kept his house and guns and never got
cheated on while he was at work and all his friends and family thought he
was ****in cool as hell and had tons of money in the bank and left the
toilet seat up... The end.

White Knight . . .
 

Hey, that's ME. (But I'm not bald yet).

It's because I want YOUTH, and I can't get it in USA, Europe, Australia...where one would have to be a millionaire to hook up with a g/f who is 22 years younger. Most Asian ladies have no problem with such an age gap; and in general, they are not high-maintenance, back-talking b!tches. :eek:

What the expat life taught me
 

What the expat life taught me: find a good woman in a 3rd world **** hole, take her home and give her everything she ever wanted including love.... affection and some play money. Treat her well, let her have your children - give the children the best life they could ever have and reciprocate the love and affection to the entire family. You will have a family unit that is strong and enduring... stay away from western women who are still single or divorced and older than 25......
6to8

Are you serious???

A b:mad: is a b:mad: no matter where she's from...!

(Same goes for the men too)

You are 100% right... YOU women from "western modern world" you don't know how to handle a man...the only thing that's matter for you is MONEY... regarding what your ex-husband did for YOU in the pass...:yuk:you can go to hell I am more happy now, you don't suck my life and money any more...a good prostitute is chipper

He was at home packing his bags to go to the airport when there was a knock at the door.
His ex found out he was in town and she went to the CSA for more money.
He was served with a summons and couldnt leave Oz until it was all sorted.
Missed his new contact, was out of a job for months and nearly went bankrupt!


QF22 a 5.56 is shipper and faster:)

400tons

Only if you plan on staying in the sandpit....bring her back to the states & she'll become Western real fast!

Whatever your preference in women is I wish you luck. But one thing with this thread strikes me as illogical.

You say that you don't want white women "only looking for money". So, what do you think the 25 year Asian girl is seeing in a 50 year old man? The love of her life?

I can recommend a book called "Private dancer".

I wonder what Rupert Murdoch's view would be on this subject?:ouch:

What always amazes me is just how vindictive and cruel the ex-wives are, even if they are the one's who initiated the split. Relationships can go wrong for many reasons, but as to why :rolleyes: the fairer sex can't seem to leave it at that is a mystery to me. If there are kids involved, then paying your share is the decent thing to do, even if the ex is using them as a weapon against you (it's a sign of the character).

Choosing well in the beginning and getting to know your partner before committing is the way to go, yet 1 in 3 marriages/partnerships goes to the hills so something is going wrong. Asian women do have more of a reverential regard towards men starting within their home/family and culture and an older/wiser partner is seen as a bonus due to security and stability. I don't think, in general, that women can deal well with partners that don't come home each day and within the pilot community that is the nature of the beast.....

totally agree with 400tons easter women knows how to handle their western men:

Friend 1: Found floating in a BKK klong after his wife hired a hit man. Ex Bahrain resident. She was later caught when trying to use a dead man's visa card.

Friend 2: Same as in 1 but in Indonesia.

Friend 3: Committed "suicide??" after his russian wife milked him dry (money)

Friend 4: 60% on the same path as 1. In BKK with his money dwindling fast, which seems like an impossible thing but nevertheless.

Delirious
 

Have None of you Guys watched Eddie Murphy Delirious/RAW >?


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you're missing the point
 

What I was trying to say is that maybe instead of whining about how bitchy and vindictive "white" western women are, maybe you should be asking yourself what happened to the nice woman you married. If you treat a lady like a lady she'll usually behave like a lady. If you treat her like a servant, doormat, or hole in the mattress... she will eventually turn into a bitch and make you pay for it. It's actually really simple; it's about respect and fairness. But too many men, Western, European, Asian, want their cake and a tasty little cupcake on the side as well. Call it carelessness, absent minded, call it bored ... but eventually enough isn't enough anymore and their eyes start to wander. A wife represents responsibility and duty, but the cupcake represents freedom and fun.

What exactly surprises you about a wife (Western or otherwise) turning into robo-bitch when she feels she's been taken for granted or played for a fool? If the stiletto was on the other foot, you'd do the same.

And just as a hooker is only with you because of your wallet, what on earth makes you think an Asian woman is with you for your looks, your sense of humor or your prowess in bed? She's with you because you're her ticket out of the hell hole she's living in. She's with you because you're a meal ticket. She's smiling and massaging you to get it over with so you'll buy her pretty things and take her nice places, things she'll never have in that hell hole she came from.

Go ahead and fool yourself into thinking Western women are all money-grabbing bitches. Lull yourself to sleep tonight believing Asian women are all about making you happy. You can fool yourself, but you can't fool the world ... not forever.

We make our own heaven and hell ... ALL OF US ... and we reap what we sow. If you want a good marriage, work at it. Play nice, play fair, be honest, be trustworthy, be loving. A wife isn't a doormat, or servant. Don't treat her like one. Treat her like a Goddess and she'll make you her GOD. And after all, isn't that who you think you are anyway?

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The age old aviation saying rings very true...

If it flies, floats or f#ck's, it's cheaper to rent....:D:D

Do not thrust anybody at EK
 

You cannot thrust EK for anything, they even sent my medical records to the divorce lawyer of my wife, emptied all my accounts and gave her a 2 year sponsorship with a Royal stamp.

It's called pussy power and every Macho in the EK management folds for it in a split second.