Breast Cancer prognosis
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Breast Cancer prognosis
Good evening to you all.
I'll keep it as short as I can. My Wife had a mammogram - this showed very slight evidence of a small tumour.
A needle biopsy was performed which gave the results of 'pre cancerous cells'.
A lumpectomy was performed which was sent for biopsy. The biopsy revealed that in fact some of the tumor was in fact cancerous.
A sentinel node removal was carried out which (using the OSNA technique) showed cancer cells were present. Then under the same operation a number of other lymph nodes were removed.
My wife is now scheduled for a full body MRI scan and awaits the results of the biopsy carried out on the removed nodes.
At each stage during this process my Wife was told that there is only a very slight chance of 'real' cancer cells being found. As is evident they have been found which has apparently surprised the consultant.
The tumour was initially described as a 17mm grade 1 apocrine cancer with surrounding intermediate grade DCIS. The invasive component shows no lymphovascular invasion and it is negative for oestrogen, progesterone and HER 2 receptors. We were told that radiation treatment would follow.
Since that letter describing the cancer the breast cancer Nurse assigned to my Wife has told me that because of the findings in the sentinel node operation the cancer is now being described as grade 2a. Radiation treatment will follow and she told me that my Wife should be prepared for the possibility of chemotherapy.
The biopsy of the nodes will apparently reveal the extent of the amount of cancer cells and therefore I imagine the likelihood of dispersal to cause secondary tumours. If there are secondary tumours the cancer nurse told me that these were basically incurable. She also told me that the MRI scan will only show developed tumours - which makes sense.
We await the results with anxiety to say the least. To be honest my Wife is in a very depressed state which is understandable - all I can do is try to support her and pick up the pieces as we go on.
Can any expert here tell me what we can expect from here? I understand that none of you have a crystal ball and that predictions of any cancer development are difficult as each individual cancer case is essentially unique.
I am just trying to gain an insight as to a likely outcome from this terrible disease. If I hear bad news from you then it is likely that I will keep it to myself for now - any possible good news I will pass on so as to keep my Wife's spirits up.
Obviously in my dreams I would like reassurance that everything is going to be 'OK', but I really would like an appraisal from experts of what the real likely outcome will be.
I understand there is no way to absolutely predict an outcome with any absolute certainty but I would appreciate it if experts could give their opinion on 'likely' outcomes.
Many thanks in advance
Regards
Exeng
I'll keep it as short as I can. My Wife had a mammogram - this showed very slight evidence of a small tumour.
A needle biopsy was performed which gave the results of 'pre cancerous cells'.
A lumpectomy was performed which was sent for biopsy. The biopsy revealed that in fact some of the tumor was in fact cancerous.
A sentinel node removal was carried out which (using the OSNA technique) showed cancer cells were present. Then under the same operation a number of other lymph nodes were removed.
My wife is now scheduled for a full body MRI scan and awaits the results of the biopsy carried out on the removed nodes.
At each stage during this process my Wife was told that there is only a very slight chance of 'real' cancer cells being found. As is evident they have been found which has apparently surprised the consultant.
The tumour was initially described as a 17mm grade 1 apocrine cancer with surrounding intermediate grade DCIS. The invasive component shows no lymphovascular invasion and it is negative for oestrogen, progesterone and HER 2 receptors. We were told that radiation treatment would follow.
Since that letter describing the cancer the breast cancer Nurse assigned to my Wife has told me that because of the findings in the sentinel node operation the cancer is now being described as grade 2a. Radiation treatment will follow and she told me that my Wife should be prepared for the possibility of chemotherapy.
The biopsy of the nodes will apparently reveal the extent of the amount of cancer cells and therefore I imagine the likelihood of dispersal to cause secondary tumours. If there are secondary tumours the cancer nurse told me that these were basically incurable. She also told me that the MRI scan will only show developed tumours - which makes sense.
We await the results with anxiety to say the least. To be honest my Wife is in a very depressed state which is understandable - all I can do is try to support her and pick up the pieces as we go on.
Can any expert here tell me what we can expect from here? I understand that none of you have a crystal ball and that predictions of any cancer development are difficult as each individual cancer case is essentially unique.
I am just trying to gain an insight as to a likely outcome from this terrible disease. If I hear bad news from you then it is likely that I will keep it to myself for now - any possible good news I will pass on so as to keep my Wife's spirits up.
Obviously in my dreams I would like reassurance that everything is going to be 'OK', but I really would like an appraisal from experts of what the real likely outcome will be.
I understand there is no way to absolutely predict an outcome with any absolute certainty but I would appreciate it if experts could give their opinion on 'likely' outcomes.
Many thanks in advance
Regards
Exeng
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Exeng:
First off, I'm sorry to hear of your beloved's illness. It's never good news, and usually comes down on folks like a ton of bricks.
That said, from what you outlined, I believe you are in an excellent care system, with access to very up-to-date investigation and treatment plans. I urge you to have confidence in their advice, seek a second opinion if you think it wise, and join with them in forming the approach best for you.
No doubt others closer to your location, and with more specific treatment experience will chime in here. But let me say that with over 30 years in the field of women's health, I dealt with literally hundreds of women facing the breast cancer issue. Results nowadays are vastly better: that's because of earlier and more precise diagnosis, and the ability to tailor the treatment to the individual case as the testing proceeds.
This is a disease which often defies prediction. You've already seen that, and your surgeons have proceeded as the results indicate, each step of the way. What they are trying to determine now is, can this case be treated by relatively local means (surgery, radiation), or is adding wider therapy (drugs, chemo, etc) the best way to go. My personal opinion, were it my family, is that standard treatment is radiation and chemo, and the therapists have to convince me, by tests, experience, and logic, that it is safe to skip some part of that triad. Indeed, many don't need the whole bit -- but right now you need the full gamut of testing to make that proper decision.
Best wishes to you both. Let us know from time to time how you are doing.
Graham, MD
First off, I'm sorry to hear of your beloved's illness. It's never good news, and usually comes down on folks like a ton of bricks.
That said, from what you outlined, I believe you are in an excellent care system, with access to very up-to-date investigation and treatment plans. I urge you to have confidence in their advice, seek a second opinion if you think it wise, and join with them in forming the approach best for you.
No doubt others closer to your location, and with more specific treatment experience will chime in here. But let me say that with over 30 years in the field of women's health, I dealt with literally hundreds of women facing the breast cancer issue. Results nowadays are vastly better: that's because of earlier and more precise diagnosis, and the ability to tailor the treatment to the individual case as the testing proceeds.
This is a disease which often defies prediction. You've already seen that, and your surgeons have proceeded as the results indicate, each step of the way. What they are trying to determine now is, can this case be treated by relatively local means (surgery, radiation), or is adding wider therapy (drugs, chemo, etc) the best way to go. My personal opinion, were it my family, is that standard treatment is radiation and chemo, and the therapists have to convince me, by tests, experience, and logic, that it is safe to skip some part of that triad. Indeed, many don't need the whole bit -- but right now you need the full gamut of testing to make that proper decision.
Best wishes to you both. Let us know from time to time how you are doing.
Graham, MD
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Exeng,
Really feel for you. My mum went through it quite a few years ago in almost the same way as your wife. With each procedure that was carried out came with it more info for the doctors and the risk slowly went up. She underwent several ops, chemotherapy and radio and came through it. I of course wasn't at home much (whenever I could) but I know there will be some dark days ahead. Look to that light at the end of the tunnel and I'm sure your prospects will be good...
All the best mate!
Really feel for you. My mum went through it quite a few years ago in almost the same way as your wife. With each procedure that was carried out came with it more info for the doctors and the risk slowly went up. She underwent several ops, chemotherapy and radio and came through it. I of course wasn't at home much (whenever I could) but I know there will be some dark days ahead. Look to that light at the end of the tunnel and I'm sure your prospects will be good...
All the best mate!
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Exeng : I cannot offer any real knowledge on this, only sympathy and my hopes that your wife will respond well to whatever treatment the professionals recommend.
I do know that a positive attitude is very important, family support and love can work miracles.
My best ........
I do know that a positive attitude is very important, family support and love can work miracles.
My best ........
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I agree that from your post it appears you are in a first world centre despite my initial concern that you were in a part of Africa that could not provide advanced care. I would be interested to know which country you are in because in some parts of the continent we do see mirroring of western medicine and the availability of advanced care but perhaps lacking some of the training and experience of the west
So it might well be worth getting a second opinion if you are able to do so from the UK or USA. In some cases this might be possible without a physical consultation as you appear to have comprehensive reports. If it supports your local specialists all well and good. If it advises some tweaking of care I would hope your specialists would take it with good grace
Good luck
I agree that from your post it appears you are in a first world centre despite my initial concern that you were in a part of Africa that could not provide advanced care. I would be interested to know which country you are in because in some parts of the continent we do see mirroring of western medicine and the availability of advanced care but perhaps lacking some of the training and experience of the west
So it might well be worth getting a second opinion if you are able to do so from the UK or USA. In some cases this might be possible without a physical consultation as you appear to have comprehensive reports. If it supports your local specialists all well and good. If it advises some tweaking of care I would hope your specialists would take it with good grace
Good luck
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Thanks for all the replies - much appreciated
My Wife is being looked after in the UK under the NHS. (Frimley Park Hospital)
I work in Africa (although on unpaid leave at the mo), hence the reason for my location on my profile.
The standard of care has been excellent and I have no reason to think that any decisions so far made have been anything other than sensible. All the consultants and nursing staff have been very understanding and compassionate in all their dealings with my Wife - they obviously take the emotional side of this disease very seriously.
I'll keep you posted on developments.
Kind regards
Exeng
I work in Africa (although on unpaid leave at the mo), hence the reason for my location on my profile.
The standard of care has been excellent and I have no reason to think that any decisions so far made have been anything other than sensible. All the consultants and nursing staff have been very understanding and compassionate in all their dealings with my Wife - they obviously take the emotional side of this disease very seriously.
I'll keep you posted on developments.
Kind regards
Exeng
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Exeng,
Sorry to read your news.
Having been thru' a couple of spooks myself, and watched my mother deal with bladder cancer, what we've learned is don't always just meekly accept what you are told. Be prepared to question & query. When she was first diagnosed, a friend told my mother to "be prepared to fight for what's right for you". He wasn't wrong. She was initially treated with the NHS then went with BUPA. Whichever service, be prepared to question decisions & move if necessary.
Here's hoping that your dreams do come true, and everything turns out "ok".
Sorry to read your news.
Having been thru' a couple of spooks myself, and watched my mother deal with bladder cancer, what we've learned is don't always just meekly accept what you are told. Be prepared to question & query. When she was first diagnosed, a friend told my mother to "be prepared to fight for what's right for you". He wasn't wrong. She was initially treated with the NHS then went with BUPA. Whichever service, be prepared to question decisions & move if necessary.
Here's hoping that your dreams do come true, and everything turns out "ok".
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Hi Exeng,
I can't even imagine how you are both feeling at this moment.
Unfortunately I'm not expert enough to offer specific advice, but it may be worth talking to the Macmillan nurses for further advice about the uncertainties you and your wife are naturally worrying about. The term "Prognosis" is often quite subjective, and goes beyond a grading of the tumour and it's potential spread.
Don't underestimate the power of the support you are giving to her right now. You need each other now, more than any other time. Please keep us informed
I can't even imagine how you are both feeling at this moment.
Unfortunately I'm not expert enough to offer specific advice, but it may be worth talking to the Macmillan nurses for further advice about the uncertainties you and your wife are naturally worrying about. The term "Prognosis" is often quite subjective, and goes beyond a grading of the tumour and it's potential spread.
Don't underestimate the power of the support you are giving to her right now. You need each other now, more than any other time. Please keep us informed
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Thanks again all for your replies
I have to say that at the moment the emotional side of things is the most difficult part of it for my Wife and I.
Today I have been on a 'downer' inwardly where as my Wife seems to have been much more optimistic.
Just who is supporting who I wonder?
Kind regards
Exeng
Today I have been on a 'downer' inwardly where as my Wife seems to have been much more optimistic.
Just who is supporting who I wonder?
Kind regards
Exeng
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Exeng. It is very difficult to be positive and supportive when your loved one is unwell. My wife had a neurological disease and the fear of the unknown made me terribly depressed for several years and she supported me, bless her. Now the guilt is overwhelming.
Be encouraged. The wife of a long-term friend of mine has had breast cancer three times over about 15 years . She is in her 70s and hail and healthy and recently got the "all clear".
Good luck - you and your dear wife are in my thoughts.
Be encouraged. The wife of a long-term friend of mine has had breast cancer three times over about 15 years . She is in her 70s and hail and healthy and recently got the "all clear".
Good luck - you and your dear wife are in my thoughts.
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Good luck to you and your wife; this will test both of you.
Not being a doctor I cannot add to what Dr Graham has previously posted. However as also posted, there is also a psychological battle. There are loads of support groups and though many of those groups' members may not survive years of cancer, there are many, many positive stories - at every stage - and I've seen the strength drawn from membership. So please encourage your wife to consider support groups.
I've observed that keeping busy is also very important - an active social life, getting out of the house, having something to achieve every day, etc.
Don't be afraid to ask for help yourself - go for a drink now & then with your mates and have a cry. You'll need it.
And do your own research - as one doctor said to me, there is so much going on in the field that no doctor, however expert, can hope to be on top of everything. Do your own research and be prepared to (respectfully) ask questions. A good doctor will welcome patient participation as it shows the patient is an active participant in their care. It may also help to prepare you for different eventualities and not be taken by surprise.
Again, good luck and thoughts are with you.
Not being a doctor I cannot add to what Dr Graham has previously posted. However as also posted, there is also a psychological battle. There are loads of support groups and though many of those groups' members may not survive years of cancer, there are many, many positive stories - at every stage - and I've seen the strength drawn from membership. So please encourage your wife to consider support groups.
I've observed that keeping busy is also very important - an active social life, getting out of the house, having something to achieve every day, etc.
Don't be afraid to ask for help yourself - go for a drink now & then with your mates and have a cry. You'll need it.
And do your own research - as one doctor said to me, there is so much going on in the field that no doctor, however expert, can hope to be on top of everything. Do your own research and be prepared to (respectfully) ask questions. A good doctor will welcome patient participation as it shows the patient is an active participant in their care. It may also help to prepare you for different eventualities and not be taken by surprise.
Again, good luck and thoughts are with you.
Hi exeng,
Firstly, I am very sorry to hear of your news and hope all goes well with your wife's treatment...
Having been in a very similar situation to yourself nearly 8 years ago, I can say with 100% certainty that your wife needs your total support every step of the way in the weeks and months ahead. It seems very clear she has it anyway but just thought I'd reinforce it!
I can also say with 100% certainty that YOU need to take charge to a significant degree here to work out what is best for her. Of course you need to listen to your doctor's advice, however there may be occasions where you may not feel comfortable on a particular course of action (or inaction) - my perception was that you tend to get treated as a number or statistic rather than a loving wife & mother so don't be afraid to ask questions or seek second opinions if you're in any doubt. I eventually worked that out a long way into my wife's treatment after some less than ideal decision making by a couple of her doctors.
Lastly, there is some great advice and support on this website and have a lot of respect to the comments made by Gingernut and obgraham.
Once again, good luck and I look forward to hearing of a good outcome in due course...
Cheers.
VH-MLE
Firstly, I am very sorry to hear of your news and hope all goes well with your wife's treatment...
Having been in a very similar situation to yourself nearly 8 years ago, I can say with 100% certainty that your wife needs your total support every step of the way in the weeks and months ahead. It seems very clear she has it anyway but just thought I'd reinforce it!
I can also say with 100% certainty that YOU need to take charge to a significant degree here to work out what is best for her. Of course you need to listen to your doctor's advice, however there may be occasions where you may not feel comfortable on a particular course of action (or inaction) - my perception was that you tend to get treated as a number or statistic rather than a loving wife & mother so don't be afraid to ask questions or seek second opinions if you're in any doubt. I eventually worked that out a long way into my wife's treatment after some less than ideal decision making by a couple of her doctors.
Lastly, there is some great advice and support on this website and have a lot of respect to the comments made by Gingernut and obgraham.
Once again, good luck and I look forward to hearing of a good outcome in due course...
Cheers.
VH-MLE
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Excellent news
Good Evening All.
Firstly may I thank all of you for your kind words of support.
Today we met with the Oncologist. the Surgeon and somebody else who was very important! A stressful day so I can't remember everything!
The long and short of it is that although cancer was found in the sentinel node no evidence of cancer was found in the other 9 nodes removed.
The specialists say there is very little chance of the cancer having progressed to secondary tumours elsewhere.
Radiation therapy will be given for 3 weeks to the affected area (only the breast and not in the area of the sentinel node)
The cancer my Wife has is apparently quite rare. An Apocrine type, but a sub species there of. Seemingly less than 2% of breast cancer patients suffer from this type.
The specialist thought that chemo was not required. However he said he would confer with a Professor Johnson of the London Royal Marsden Hospital to ensure his recommended treatment is correct.
We both have a massive cloud lifted from us although there is still a way to go.
Thanks again for your support.
Kind regards
Simon Robinson (Aka 'exeng)
Firstly may I thank all of you for your kind words of support.
Today we met with the Oncologist. the Surgeon and somebody else who was very important! A stressful day so I can't remember everything!
The long and short of it is that although cancer was found in the sentinel node no evidence of cancer was found in the other 9 nodes removed.
The specialists say there is very little chance of the cancer having progressed to secondary tumours elsewhere.
Radiation therapy will be given for 3 weeks to the affected area (only the breast and not in the area of the sentinel node)
The cancer my Wife has is apparently quite rare. An Apocrine type, but a sub species there of. Seemingly less than 2% of breast cancer patients suffer from this type.
The specialist thought that chemo was not required. However he said he would confer with a Professor Johnson of the London Royal Marsden Hospital to ensure his recommended treatment is correct.
We both have a massive cloud lifted from us although there is still a way to go.
Thanks again for your support.
Kind regards
Simon Robinson (Aka 'exeng)
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Good news
Although i am not a doctor,i do love my wife and just the thought of having to face something like that makes me cringe!
I do agree that you have a ton of things to take care of and that you need to show your beloved one how much you care about her and that you are more than willing to share that burden, you would carry yourself if you could, but let me remind you that for the sake of you both it is Imperative that you look after yourself cos if you forget to do so, you might run out of energy and trigger a very subtle yet devastating process.
I really wish you all the best from the bottom of your heart
Baobab
I do agree that you have a ton of things to take care of and that you need to show your beloved one how much you care about her and that you are more than willing to share that burden, you would carry yourself if you could, but let me remind you that for the sake of you both it is Imperative that you look after yourself cos if you forget to do so, you might run out of energy and trigger a very subtle yet devastating process.
I really wish you all the best from the bottom of your heart
Baobab
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Hi Simon,
So happy for you and your wife. Sandra went through her radio therapy without any problems other than a little "sun tan " on the treated area.
Keep positive
Regards
John
So happy for you and your wife. Sandra went through her radio therapy without any problems other than a little "sun tan " on the treated area.
Keep positive
Regards
John
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Inspite of what she is experiencing, your wife is a very fortunate lady to have a husband who is so supportive. Delighted to read your update, & I hope it is all straightforward from now on.