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skippedonce
4th Sep 2008, 07:16
From the BBC News Website:sad:

Soldier is refused room at hotel

A soldier home on leave after being injured in Afghanistan was refused a room by a hotel when he showed his military ID card at reception.
Corporal Tomos Stringer, 23, from Gwynedd, was visiting a wounded colleague in Surrey when he was turned away from the Metro Hotel in Woking.
He spent the night in his car after being told it was management policy not to accept military personnel.

The Metro Hotel is owned by a company called American Amusements Ltd, also based in Woking. No-one was available to comment.

taxydual
4th Sep 2008, 07:34
I think Michael the Manager deserves a few e-mails. He's got one from me.

The Big Apple (http://www.thebigapple.co.uk/contact.php)

The BBC report here BBC NEWS | Wales | Soldier is refused room at hotel (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/wales/7596798.stm)

Megaton
4th Sep 2008, 07:39
E-mail sent. :mad:

Icare9
4th Sep 2008, 07:43
There was an earlier thread about which businesses give discount for military personnel. Perhaps it's time for a sticky to list all businesses which allow discounts and a list of those who discriminate against, such as the one above.
It was also reported on Radio 4 (in which interview I understand his mother said his friend had died).
I feel ashamed that ANY business can turn away people serving our Country, and wonder where the PC brigade are now?? Perhaps if he said he was Welsh, we'd then see all the full force of discrimination descend upon this hotel chain and any other businesses turning away service personnel.
Still, it's "Tommy this, and Tommy that" can't see the MoD wanting to stand up and get the politicos to do something....
Sorry, Tomos, don't know what this Country is coming to when things like this happen without any comeback.....

ProM
4th Sep 2008, 07:46
Thanks Skipped, exactly want I wanted to know when I was listening to the story on R4 this morning:

"As it is your policy not to accept military personnel into your hotel, it is my policy that neither I nor anyone working for me will use any hotel in your chain."

Eye off the ball
4th Sep 2008, 08:08
email sent. It makes my blood boil, it really does.

How a British citizen can be so ungrateful for people laying down their lives is, quite frankly, beyond me.

Gainesy
4th Sep 2008, 08:12
Just in case he's too busy reading the e-mails the number is 01483-727100.

Double Zero
4th Sep 2008, 08:15
I've noticed there's a distinct anti-services flavour in some places around the Guildford / Woking area.

There's a high contingent of gypsy enclaves over the wider area - what would appear to be a normal roadside traditional pub on the way into Guildford from say the Cranleigh direction was pointed out to me as the place where our pikey friends kindly supply funny substances ( I do not partake ! ).

I believe I'm right in saying there is no love lost between the army especially and gypsies, who have a largely Irish contingent.

In Guildford itself there is what at first glance seems a nice pub in a good location - when a colleague & I ( BAe ) went to the door we noticed a large sign saying " no armed services personnel ".

Foolishly we went in, and although we were not services, and I wouldn't have thought particularly looked like services ( not very short hair etc ) we were given VERY deliberately sh***y service, being moved from table to table until next to the loos despite the place being nearly empty.

The staff happened to be very distinctly Irish...Without finishing our 1 lunchtime pint we left, after giving some polite but firm customer feedback...

This was in the late 1980's.

I am not anti-Irish ( I do happen to be anti-gypsy, but only after direct experience personally and seeing what's happened to MANY colleagues ) - but in this area there does seem to be a link.

True, I'm sure groups of squaddies from Aldershot 'letting off steam' might be a problem for town centre landlords from time to time, but imagine the outcry from the P.C. quarter ( and violent retribution ) if anyone put up a sign saying ' no gypsies' !

Obviously some sort of 'name & shame' set-up is required for anti-services establishments; on the positive side, places which welcome well behaved services personnel could also be listed or encouraged to display their support with a window sticker campaign or something ?

That way forces-friendly public ( like me ) could show their support too...

I have not sent a mail to the outfit described above as the last thing I want to do is supply them with my details, but I'm sure they will be left in no doubt that they've lost a lot of trade from the public, not just forces - maybe the local M.P. can do something, I'll try to track him down.
DZ

Top Right
4th Sep 2008, 08:20
As for them losing trade, according to www.tripadvisor.com (http://www.tripadvisor.com) some chap who stayed there in August felt the need to say this about the Metro:

"The worst hotel I've ever stayed. The room wasn't ready-just 2 beds instead of 3. Then single room had used towels. We didn't get any breakfast but they charged it and on top of that they were saying we used the telephone even though we were not in the room!!!! And they charged us extra 80 pounds!!!!"

Don't think their immediate future will be particularly bright

ProM
4th Sep 2008, 08:35
Maybe Top but there aren't a huge number of hotels in that area to choose from unfortunately.

Yes its true that the area has a high number of squaddies, but even if you reckon that they will cause trouble, they are going to be in barracks or other local accomodation. By definition anyone staying in a hotel is not from that the local camps.

skua
4th Sep 2008, 08:37
email sent. who do they think they are?

Al R
4th Sep 2008, 08:47
The monkey who receives the e-mails, will be Michael Chaussy, who'll bin them probably, before the sole director of the company gets to see them. Talking of organ grinders..

MICHAEL RICHARD ERLE APPLETON
DOB 07/10/59

I won't print his home address in the local area, or even how badly or well his company is doing, because I'm better than him. I can show him more respect than he shows to those who make sacrifices to give other strangers overseas, the freedoms that he takes for granted on his own doorstep.

But if he has sanctioned this as blanket policy.. what a c:mad:nt.

MaroonMan4
4th Sep 2008, 08:55
Ok,

Trying to be rational and calm about this - now this is where we will truly see whether the Government, local councils and the British public are really behind the Servicemen and women of the nation.

Wide publicity from the media, followed by pro-active investigation and questioning by the local council, enforced by a Governmental review.

Even if the last 2 (the local council and Government department) have no moral courage or interest, then if the British public genuinely and sincerely support Her Majesty's Armed Forces, then this chain could be out of business within a month as a boycott is widely enforced.

Now lets see if the British public really do support our lads and lasses when it counts or just providing hollow words and platitudes.

Al R
4th Sep 2008, 09:05
Theres another way of looking at it, but you run the risk of becoming frenzied PETA type activists (and lets keep things in perspective, no one got killed here.. a guy had to sleep in a car).

But the company bank is RBS. If every Soldier, Sailor and Airman who banked with RBS just upped and left in protest at their bank bankrolling companies such as American Amusements who showed a corporate policy out of step with our own personal policy, then the message would soon get across.

Epimetheus
4th Sep 2008, 09:15
MaroonMan4,

Do you mean this Cross-Governmental review?

The nation's commitment (http://www.official-documents.gov.uk/document/cm74/7424/7424.asp)

The Nation's Commitment: Cross-Government Support to our Armed Forces, their Families and Veterans

taxydual
4th Sep 2008, 09:20
There are some good guys out there. A mate has just dropped of a leaflet from John Smiths (the brewers). They've brewed a beer called 'Finest Hour'. 10p from every pint sold will go to RAFA.

Gives me another excuse to use my local.

merlinxx
4th Sep 2008, 09:26
James O'Brien is debating this on LBC 97.2. He's inviting calls, go online @ London's Biggest Conversation | LBC (http://www.lbc.co.uk).

Let's really get this bloody place listed, Email has been sent to this pathetic organization. I just called and left the line open, he he naughty, but saved me swearing like a trooper.

MaroonMan4
4th Sep 2008, 09:28
Epi,

Sadly I am not as well versed in the political level, but a sincere thank you for enlightening me. It will be interesting to see where this goes, because it is so very wrong on so many levels that it really does need some prompt action to ensure that this kind of 'policy' is stopped.

And I know that this is one rotten apple in a barrel of superb apples that are very proactive in supporting us, so it has to be focused and directed at this company.

CirrusF
4th Sep 2008, 09:34
Has anybody asked him the reason for the policy in your emails? I don't think a small business is going to deliberately turn away customers without a business reason to do so.

Just a possibility, but maybe he has had a few too many service personnel drinking too much, being abusive to other guests, smashing up their rooms, then leaving without paying for the damage. I've never, ever, heard of service personnel doing that, of course, but it might be a possibility.

barnstormer1968
4th Sep 2008, 09:39
This item is being talked about on Talksport right now (the largest commercial radio station in the UK). Their frequency is 1053 and 1089 AM.

This whole thing makes me feel sick. My own company actively supports Help for Heroes, and gives 10% discount to forces, and their families. As a "past it old timer" I feel it's the least I can do to show my loyalty and support to our troops. At this point I somehow (sadly) feel that any politicians reading this may have to consult a dictionary to look up "loyalty"

Barnstormer1968

Epimetheus
4th Sep 2008, 10:01
MaroonMan4,

Indeed the content of the cross-governmental review describes many important areas, and it's a fairly good document considering it was done relatively quickly (couple of months this year, and dependants had the chance to contribute on-line).

A cynic might say that they did it only because the Tories were pushing the "broken covenant" agenda just beforehand.

Now it's a case of turning Chapter 2 "What we (govt) will do" from words into deeds.

13thDuke
4th Sep 2008, 10:05
Just emailed the :mad:s telling them that I had now cancelled my planned corporate party at the Big Apple.

Anyone know how to contact Clarkson? He's generally good at publisizing this sort of thing.

14greens
4th Sep 2008, 10:14
Interested to know why he was showing his ID card as a start, was he trying to get discount? must admit its summat I do more and more now, and does work, or was he asked fr soem sort of ID when checking in?

That aside, i do agree it is disgracefull, had he turned up and been a tanned chap and turned away for that reason what would have been the outcome?

Sad thing is establishments do have the right to refuse entry to anyone, and actually do not have to give a reason, shocked that anywhere in this day and age would refuse on basis that you are in the military

Whats the contact number for the company CEO

BEagle
4th Sep 2008, 10:16
Quite outrageous and I hope that this awful place will be publically humiliated.

A pity it isn't Germany in pre-BAOR 'Occupation' times....

One fine day, a thirsty group of British servicemen went into a Gasthof and received a frosty reception "Ve do not serve Army in zis bar!".

Whereupon they left without saying anything. Now, most people would be distinctly worried by this, but not the barman. Until, that is a squealing and screeching noise, followed by a whirring sound was noted. The group were a tank crew, and they had brought their vehicle to 'say hello'. The turret rotated and the barrel broke the bar window, causing the occupants to leg it sharpish. "One round, blank, load!" (or similar) "Fire!". And with an almighty BANG, every last piece of glass in the bar shattered.

"Well, it seems you don't serve f*cking anyone in this bar now, do you Fritz?" was the parting comment!

What a shame that similar treatment cannot be meted out to this 'hotel'.

When my brother was a student in London, he and his friends were asked to leave the pub they were in as "We don't like students"..... So, a few days later, affecting an Irish accent he booked the whole pub for the entire night for the London Irish Rugby Supporters' Club.

I'd loved to have seen their faces when no-one turned up and they lost a whole night's trade....:E

Parapunter
4th Sep 2008, 10:24
I can help there. The second director is a Duncan Geoffrey Frank Moss & the holding company; American Amusements Ltd has a net worth of £10.5 million. I feel a donation to a charity of Corporal Stringer's choice may be in order.

Epimetheus
4th Sep 2008, 10:37
So in theory someone could book a bunch of rooms at this place, and then cancel them a half hour before the penalty cancellation time? No personal expense but some cashflow lost by the hotel .......

cargosales
4th Sep 2008, 10:54
Suffice to say that the boys and girls over at ARRSE are suitably unimpressed and are suggesting all sorts of lovely ways for people to express their feelings :E

British Army Rumour Service > > Forums > > The Serious Bit > > Current Affairs, News and Analysis > > Soldier is refused room at hotel (http://www.arrse.co.uk/cpgn2/Forums/viewtopic/t=104642/postdays=0/postorder=asc/start=0.html)

They have also .. err .. 'mentioned it' to certain tabloids. I bet the hotel management just can't wait for the call from The Sun. Tee hee


"Cry havoc and let slip the dogs of outrage"

parabellum
4th Sep 2008, 10:57
I really do think that if this totally unacceptable attitude from hoteliers and barkeepers prevails then, Yes, let us have a list of the baddies and equally a list of the gooduns. It could be published in the Soldier magazine as well as the many Corps magazines and their RN, RM and RAF equivalents. Any serving or ex serving people will then boycott such establishments and at the same time help to publicise them for their intolerance. Maybe the Red tops would publish it too? Obviously some legal restraints may apply but it could be done, publish a 'Blacklist' of any establishment that overtly refuses a serviceman or woman and a 'Goldlist' of the friendly establishments.

I'll give GBP100.00 to any proper fund to set this up, in a society that is is so up itself with correctness and anti-discrimination it should be a doddle to get going.

diginagain
4th Sep 2008, 11:07
cargosales, we tend to use the term 'jumping on the outrage bus' over the road.

If this case proves to be true.............

The cynic in me thinks that ascertaining Mum's involvement may be crucial in getting to the truth.

coldbuffer
4th Sep 2008, 11:40
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airborne_artist
4th Sep 2008, 12:07
Arrse has pulled the thread as people published names and residential addresses of some of the alleged Directors of the company/parent company.

Jamma
4th Sep 2008, 12:13
Bet if the management policy was to refuse entry to certain ethnic brethren this would have been discussed in parliament by now !! Bloody strange country this

Chris Kebab
4th Sep 2008, 12:21
I hope CHBS or Hogg Robinson or whatever they are called today have responded to the hotel's policy and pulled this chain from their list.

jimma
4th Sep 2008, 12:24
I find this absolutly disgusting. As jamma said, you cant turn someone away for being from an ethnic minority so why is this allowed??

As a country we must support our troops and treating them like second class citzens is out of order! I will not be putting any of mine, or anyone elses money their way for this blatant unpatriotic act!!!

Pure Pursuit
4th Sep 2008, 13:08
The Daily Telegraph already has hold of the story, complete with MoD comments.

Under the blogs section. Unable to offer a link as I'm using Google Chrome. Fault no 1.

andyy
4th Sep 2008, 13:40
Should make it illegal to discriminate against people on the grounds of their job, in the same way that it is illegal to discriminate against someone because of their, colour, religeon, sexual orientation etc

Zoom
4th Sep 2008, 14:03
Nothing about refusing the military on their website:
Metro Hotel-Woking - Woking, - Discounted Rates. (http://www.metrotravelguide.com/hotelinfo/woking/_/united_kingdom/101615/#trafficLogID=535394587&visited=true)

establishments do have the right to refuse entry to anyone, and actually do not have to give a reason
Not sure that this true; I seem to remember somewhere that non-private hotels could not turn anyone away who was 'fit and able to pay'. Different for private hotels. But I'll check.

I'm using Google Chrome
Me too, and so far so good.

Old Speckled Aircrew
4th Sep 2008, 15:03
Just heard on R5live that the company has issued an apology to Corporal Tomos Stringer

pr00ne
4th Sep 2008, 15:06
Zoom,

Er, just what exactly is a non private hotel?


You cannot force a business or an individual to do business with anyone.

Discrimination on race, gender, sexuality or age is illegal but that is the law, doesn't mean that you can force anyone to trade with anyone else.

All of the publicity on this case should see the result you all want. I also think that the reaction should once and for all put to rest the ridiculous notion that most people in this country do not hold our armed forces in a good degree of respect.

Epimetheus
4th Sep 2008, 16:05
Now reported in The Times but with a summary of the day's outcry, esp on ARRSE

Soldier forced to sleep in car after hotel refuses him a room - Times Online (http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/article4674411.ece)

cliffnemo
4th Sep 2008, 16:46
I emailed Hywell Williams on this subject and below is the reply I suggest you all do the same.
CLIFFNEMO
----------------------------------------------------------------
REPLY
Many thanks for bringing this matter to our attention. Plaid Cymru MP for Caernarfon Hywel Williams has already acted on the matter;



Hywel Williams MP said he intended to take the matter further when he had a reply to his letter to the hotel.

He said: "I was astonished when I heard the story from Mrs Stringer. I can't see why any hotel would want to refuse accommodation to a serving member of the armed forces anyway.
"Tomos was not in his uniform, he was a traveller like anyone else."

I refer you to a BBC story on the matter (BBC NEWS | Wales | Soldier is refused room at hotel (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/wales/7596798.stm) )and, If you require any further information to contact Hywel Williams’ office in Caernarfon.
[email protected] (Hywel’s e-mail address)
Hywel Williams
8 Stryd y Castell,
Caernarfon,
Gwynedd,
LL55 1SE
Many thanks once again for bringing the matter to our attention
Diolch
Dyfan Powel
Swyddog Cydlynu Polisi / Policy Coordinator
Plaid Cymru
ebost/email [email protected]

Plaid Cymru, Ty Gwynfor, Marine Chambers, Anson Court, Atlantic Wharf, Caerdydd, CF10 4AL.
Ffon: 02920 475927
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Roland Pulfrew
4th Sep 2008, 17:10
Just been on the Radio 2 news during the Chris Evans show. Apparently the police have been called due to the hotel receiving a number of "threatening and abusive e-mails and phone calls". Guess the military will end up being the bad guys in this story soon!!! Careful chaps.

They have apologised and blamed a receptionist for saying that it was policy. Now why would a receptionist just assume that it was policy not to accept servicemen if it wasn't actually policy?:hmm:

NoFaultFound
4th Sep 2008, 17:18
Sadly this kind of thing is not uncommon... whilst picking troops up at a large international airport in central England we were told that as crew we could not go into the terminal in uniform and that our pax had been told to report in civvies as the airport did not allow military uniform so as not to offend!!!!

NFF:rolleyes:

DG101
4th Sep 2008, 19:19
Ladies and Gentlemen

I would urge you, before you jump to possibly inaccurate conclusions, to be aware that we have heard only hearsay evidence relayed by Cpl Stringer's mother, certainly nothing that would be accepted in court. If I were sitting in judgement, I would like answers to a few questions. To open the debate:

- Why did Cpl. Stringer decide his best/only recourse was to sleep in his small car?
- What efforts did Cpl. Stringer make to find alternative accommodation in the area?
- Why wait until Cpl. Stringer returned to duty before going to the press?

There may be more to this story than has been revealed. :suspect:

endplay
4th Sep 2008, 20:20
Is it possible that this story is more to do with the acceptance or othewise of military ID cards being used as a means of identification. (It's difficult to imagine why this chap would have presented his card for any other reason). If for example he was paying by cash or a credit card that the company doesn't accept?

If this is the case it's entirely plausible and even, dare I say it, not unreasonable. I've been out for a year (almost) and IIRC there was talk of the introduction of joint ID card. I don't know if this has happened but if it has I wouldn't recognise it. I'd struggle with a RN or Army one for that matter.

Out here it's a passport or photo driving licence only.

Just a thought.

Double Zero
5th Sep 2008, 01:41
Isn't it a nice thought that any innocent - if daft - people staying at this place will probably be given the red carpet loss-making treatment, ( well, as far as this bunch can manage ) 'just in case' a la Basil Fawlty & the Hotel Inspector ?! :E

Where exactly does this hotel - and chain - feature on the owners' / potential investor's Monopoly boards right now I wonder - and as for blaming the receptionist...

Brian Abraham
5th Sep 2008, 05:04
God and the Soldier,
We alike adore

In times of danger,
Not before.

The danger past
And all conflict righted,

God is forgotten,
The Soldier slighted.

LBGR
5th Sep 2008, 05:20
I would like answers to a few questions. To open the debate:

- Why did Cpl. Stringer decide his best/only recourse was to sleep in his small car?
- What efforts did Cpl. Stringer make to find alternative accommodation in the area?
- Why wait until Cpl. Stringer returned to duty before going to the press?



I'm sorry but what a bucket of b*llocks. It doesn't matter whether he slept in the street outside or the 5* hotel down the road, or when he went back to duty in relation to contacting the press.

The point is, and remains he was turned away. What were the reasons behind this and as others have pointed out, if this was someone from a {insert minority here} background, it would not be allowed.

It sounds to me like you're a policy maker. What was his recourse, indeed? I think you've bl00dy well missed the point by a long shot. :ugh:

F*cking recourse? :yuk:

Al R
5th Sep 2008, 06:23
Brian,

That poem, very true.

But as an observation, and I don't say this to be contentious or anything like that, we need to keep this in perspective. This time yesterday, I posted the name of the MD because his company decided on this course of action, and he needs to be accountable. I didn't publish his address, because that would possibly have been inciting a breech of the peace and endangering or distressing people who have nothing to do with this, or what happened (.. but as an aside, its still law for all company directors to have a brass plate attached to their house, stating their names and company details anyway!). If the troops on ARRSE did that, then they do themselves no favours, and again, I don't ay this to be inflammatory, but to remind them that they run the risk of winning the firefight, but losing the campaign.

Yes, we want the military to be shown more respect, of course we do, but we need to be just a little smarter about this. Nothing will turn the public off more, than a never ending succession of old soldietrs banging their gums about the latest outrage.. HOWEVER JUSTIFIED THE OUTRAGE IS. The public just doesn't have the capacity any longer, to sustain productive interest in any one event, consider the death of Princess Diana. HUGE public empathy at the time, but very quickly - dissinterest and now derision. NOTHING goes out of fashion quicker than fashion, and supporting the troops is very fashionable. But it runs the risk of being a victim of its own success. This incident, if taken in context, wasn't the end of the world. A veteran wasn't deprived of NHS treatment or lost his job and a vet's child wasn't able to get NHS treatment. Whether we like it or not (and as ever in these things, you only ever get a clear perspective with the benefit of time and distance) those are the sorts of campaigns that are judged and viewed in the medium to long term. Campaigns such as this will need to keep their powder dry for the REALLY important events. This, with respect, was a little like selecting 'auto' on a soft skinned vehicle travelling at speed 500 m away. This should have got a response suitable and not the full monty, which, the media being the media, is always going to happen when you get OUTRAGED!!! talk jocks and the likes of Jeremy Vine etc.

I suggested approaching the banks, applying pressure which is going to be felt long term. People such as those who caused and who will do it again are the types of people who will soon forget about this, won't give a damn and will want to chance their luck anyway, because frankly, they're at the lower end of the food and money chain. They don't care about glorious concepts like protecting those who protect us - they only care about the balance sheet. Pressure has to be long and slow, and lets not forget. ALL discrimination is a shocker, whether its this lad being forced to sleep in his car is nothing compared to what an immigrant with family in tow must have felt like when they saw signs in hostels and B&Bs saying 'No blacks'. Look how long that campaign was fought for - by confronting bigots and idiots head on over individual matters, you only allow people a conduit, and those people who may support you will always have done so anyway. We need to remember too, that the overwelming majority of the country is behind 'us' (I am no longer fortunate enough to be able to describe myself as serving, but I reserve the right to chip in, from afar!).

I was just a Regt NCO and I was proud to get stuck into misscarriages of justice like Grays Lane, but ALL landlords and hoteliers have an obligation as part of their licence to host people, its THAT which should be the issue here as much as this JNCOs sad experience. I'm not trying to belittle this incident, but just to put it in context in order to be able to achieve a proper solution, not short term gratification. And finally, lets not forget the really important thing here, and I say this as a principle and nothing else. We all have a right to mentally like or dislike people and what they do (politicians, estate agents etc). As servicemen, no one forced us into the recruiting office. I did what I did because I wanted to do it so much my balls ached - I didn't then give too much of a toss about being screamed at by peace slags (a term of affection) at Greenham Common, stoned or sniped at by Irish people, shot up by Bosnians or bombed by Arabs. Similarly, they shouldn't mind when I express my true feelings about them! But in this day and age, lets not start ramming our ideology down people's throats because OUR idea of right is AUTOMATICALLY better than the next mans. This g'ment started the ball rolling by banning fox hunting and whatever you think about the rights and wrongs of that, from there - we started to be drawn towards this philosophy of imposing will upon people at a scale we haven't previously seen.

I'm not saying I'm a latte sipping, yoghurt knitting, straw sucking, hemp underpant wearing liberal - I'm not. I was (like I said) just a Regt gnr, and if that JNCO had called me and explained what had happened, I would have driven there to be by his side and (without prejudice) considered an immediate robust and more direct course of action against the person involved. Or (possibly!) having gained his details from Coy House I would have driven to the MDs house, politely rang the doorbell, apologised for the lateness of the hour and then carefully explained what (possibly in contravention of his licence) was happening. I would have smiled, and told him that in the past, the media had a nasty habit of escalating these things, so (in his interests) would he like to call the night clerk and clarify matters? Then, a day or two later, he would have received a letter apologising profusely for my intrusion, and thanking him for his help. I might have suggested that together, we might be able to cobble together a few finely crafted words for the media and show how the owner of a respectable and established chain of hotels was going the extra mile for the troops by resolving issues at 0230 and was also keen and happy to offer a 20% discount for all military parties in the area. Win win - we are the greatest in the world at fighting to obtain and maintain the peace through diplomacy, guile, tact and cunning, so lets not forget those qualities which make us what we are. Lets be diplomatic, or at least, lets not lose the ability to be diplomatic.

But to achieve real success, we need to pace things, and apply a response thats appropriate. We cannot run at FULL ON!! all the time, we can't do it and the public won't stand for it (believe me). We have to (red on.. in the door.. stand by to puke).. walk softly and carry a big stick. And if that wasn't bad enough, we also need to.. :yuk: pick our battles.

Double Zero
5th Sep 2008, 06:53
" A breech of the peace " - was that a freudian slip ?!

airborne_artist
5th Sep 2008, 07:17
but as an aside, its still law for all company directors to have a brass plate attached to their house, stating their names and company details anyway!

Not true - I've never had one, nor had any instructions from HMG to do so.

StbdD
5th Sep 2008, 08:45
Sorry, not buying it.

We 'make our own beds' when we go out and 'let off steam'. It is a bad assumption that forces personnel had never 'relaxed' in the establishment in question.

Professionals pay their damages, punks don't. If you can't tell them apart why blame the hotellier for making a broad choice?

In fact, there is certainly no reason to welcome us back after uniformed, irresponsible ****heads preceeded us. There are heroes, and there are chavs in uniform.

There is no reason to expect a civvie establishment to foot the destruction/booze/food bill of forces personnel and we all know damned well it happens.

Want a room? If they tell you to dig very deep for a deposit, blame your predecessors.

Mmmmnice
5th Sep 2008, 09:03
Lots of points well put and, as ex-mil who has received more discounts and praise for my work when on holiday in California than here at home, I am frequently disappointed by the lack of support for our troops at home. But the flip side boils down to one individual making a very poor decision, and an apology has duly turned up (probably helped by the outcry) - hands up all out there who have never made a bad decision. Time for the foaming at the mouth to cease maybe?

NURSE
5th Sep 2008, 11:32
not Really that surprised its been the attitude of this country to its service men and now women for a very long time. Any one Remember the Poem by Kipling?

"Tommy"
I went into a public-'ouse to get a pint o' beer,
The publican 'e up an' sez, "We serve no red-coats here."
The girls be'ind the bar they laughed an' giggled fit to die,
I outs into the street again an' to myself sez I:
O it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, go away";
But it's "Thank you, Mister Atkins", when the band begins to play,
The band begins to play, my boys, the band begins to play,
O it's "Thank you, Mister Atkins", when the band begins to play.

I went into a theatre as sober as could be,
They gave a drunk civilian room, but 'adn't none for me;
They sent me to the gallery or round the music-'alls,
But when it comes to fightin', Lord! they'll shove me in the stalls!
For it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, wait outside";
But it's "Special train for Atkins" when the trooper's on the tide,
The troopship's on the tide, my boys, the troopship's on the tide,
O it's "Special train for Atkins" when the trooper's on the tide.

Yes, makin' mock o' uniforms that guard you while you sleep
Is cheaper than them uniforms, an' they're starvation cheap;
An' hustlin' drunken soldiers when they're goin' large a bit
Is five times better business than paradin' in full kit.
Then it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, 'ow's yer soul?"
But it's "Thin red line of 'eroes" when the drums begin to roll,
The drums begin to roll, my boys, the drums begin to roll,
O it's "Thin red line of 'eroes" when the drums begin to roll.

We aren't no thin red 'eroes, nor we aren't no blackguards too,
But single men in barricks, most remarkable like you;
An' if sometimes our conduck isn't all your fancy paints,
Why, single men in barricks don't grow into plaster saints;
While it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Tommy, fall be'ind",
But it's "Please to walk in front, sir", when there's trouble in the wind,
There's trouble in the wind, my boys, there's trouble in the wind,
O it's "Please to walk in front, sir", when there's trouble in the wind.

You talk o' better food for us, an' schools, an' fires, an' all:
We'll wait for extry rations if you treat us rational.
Don't mess about the cook-room slops, but prove it to our face
The Widow's Uniform is not the soldier-man's disgrace.
For it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "Chuck him out, the brute!"
But it's "Saviour of 'is country" when the guns begin to shoot;
An' it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' anything you please;
An' Tommy ain't a bloomin' fool -- you bet that Tommy sees!

-- Rudyard Kipling

pr00ne
5th Sep 2008, 12:24
Why do people constantly drag up that sodding poem everytime this topic rears it's ugly head!

Double Zero
5th Sep 2008, 12:47
Probably because it's an ugly head, and the sodding poem is relevant. Agree I may have seen it enough now, someone will have to come up with a new one...

A tentative attempt - at least others can only get better...


Bloody Squaddies beating up our thugs,
leave that to chav's, they're our sodding pubs...

Bloody Navy stopping our drugs,
now how do we fuel our friday night thugs...

Bloody Airforce frightning cattle all over the nation,
bastard's so fast I couldn't claim compensation...

Hang on, there's a war in some nasty hole,

Good on you lads, wish I was in your role !


I'll get me coat...

22/7 Master
5th Sep 2008, 14:16
A couple of years ago I was ordered to return from a working visit to the US in order to collect kit and join Sqn in Cyprus where ops were underway. So 24 hours after leaving the states I arrived at BZN bleary eyed.

I duly reported to Brize in Deserts and carrying flying kit and bang stick to be told I couldn't travel in uniform as it may scare the other passengers and I couldn't take a firearm to Cyprus, and anyway there was no space on the flight.

Under the belief the flight must have been going to a Cypriot airport I asked to see the Duty MovO and rapidly changed into civvies.

Duty MovO rebriefed, he bumped off indulgence passengers (who has been prioritised ahead of me) and arrived at RAF Akrotiri idc avec shooter but in civvies.

Unbelievable that uniform cannot be worn between 2 military airfields!

It's not just hotel receptionists who make the wrong call.

taxydual
5th Sep 2008, 14:39
I too, in my time, a la 22/7 MASTER, was roused from my slumbers and sent at very, very short notice, with my boss, Eastwards. We too were told to wear full cabbage kit and carry bang sticks etc.

We too were told (by the steward of the VC5) that we had to get changed into civvies, the reason being, that if the aircraft diverted to another country, the pair of us could be seen as an 'invasion force'.

A two man invasion force! We were good, but not that good!


Sorry, just realised. Way off thread

Al R
5th Sep 2008, 18:05
AA said: "Not true - I've never had one, nor had any instructions from HMG to do so"

Its still a requirement from the days of tea merchants all working and living in the same street, and in the next, all spice merchants etc working and living together too. As bizarre as it sounds, it has never been revoked but just sits there, forgotten.

AA,

Sad I know, but I had a quick look. The reality seems to be somewhere in the middle and looks as if its aimed at those who work mostly from home.

"Under the Companies Act 1985 your company must state its name (as it appears in its memorandum of association) in certain places and on its business stationery. Your company must also give certain information on all its business letters, order forms and websites. Every company must paint or affix its name on the outside of every office or place in which its business is carried on - even if it is a director's home. The name must be kept painted or affixed and it must be both conspicuous and legible."

airborne_artist
6th Sep 2008, 12:51
Letter from today's Telegraph:

"The son of friends of ours, recently home from Afghanistan to attend the funeral of a fellow officer who had been killed there, was returning by train to Oxford when he was approached by the guard.

The guard checked his warrant and requested that the soldier follow him. On asking the reason, the guard replied: “Sir, on my train you travel first class.”"

Now there's a man who deserves a beer :ok:

Whenurhappy
6th Sep 2008, 17:28
Great to here of that reaction on the trains. My expereince has been varied - I travelled from Reading to way up North on R&R by Virigin (First Class) last year in desert DPMs and was reasonably well-received, but on several occasions (as posted elsewhere) I have been ashamed by Service personnel (invariably Army) travelling Standard Class on the train - drunk, loud and 'larging it'. On one occasion I asked the guys to settle down - it was about 1730 on a busy train - they were drunk and outdoing each other with stories from Helmand, much to the annoyance of other passengers. To their credit they sobered up pretty quickly when they saw my ID card, but it shouldn't have to come to that.

I fight prejudice agaisnt the Services almost daily but we are often let down by our own people (I can certainly think of times that I should not have been allowed out in public!) and can understand why some companies are wary of servicemen en masse. But why change traditions of behaviour in the Services that go back hundreds of years!