Couple of things:
1) You might need to register your wedding with the US consulate in Jakarta. Where you properly married in Jakarta? 2 days sounds very quick for all the formalities. Do you have a "buku nikah" (a blue book that is your marriage cert) or was it just a religious wedding? Jerry Hall made the same mistake
2) If you are legally married, and money is tight, then why not live in Indonesia? It will be quicker/ easier/ cheaper for you to get spouse visa for Indonesia as you are married to an Indonesian citizen that the other way round. Plus the food is better