B2N2, i did heaps of research. As you know, there is **** tons of info on the internet... Its hard to digest it all, and also not knowing what is to be believed and what is not to be believed...
I also asked on other sites... All the info I found and received by asking on other sites indicated a spouse visa was the best option. That's why we got married asap...
Maybe it was the right thing to do, maybe not, but it is what it is, and that is what happened. Also, last Feb. we contacted the U.S. embassy in CGK requesting an interview to decide our best plan of action. We were declined an interview... Hindsight is 20/20...
Whherron, have found visa journey to be a wealth of info, thanks!
Tokyojohn, have received your p.m. and have sent 2 replies, but no replies are in my outbox, so don't know if you received my replies... Thanks for taking the time to reply, the info you sent was very helpful.. Thanks!!!