Lucky,
Thanks for the reply, I will check the links this weekend when I have more time. Several months ago I found on USCIS website was that it was up to each states attorney general as to whether they acknowledged foreign weddings. ( in this case indosenian ). I emailed my attorney general and he ( or most likely a secretary) replied that they had no position on the marriage as to if they recognized it or not...
Therefore they did not officially recognize our marriage in Indonesia, therefore no green card...
One roadblock after another. ;(