BusAirDriver, it sounds like you are not happy flying.
I understand giving advice to someone who is 40+ about hiring policies and about being away from family. I never could imagine that someone starting with more than 30 years (I am 25 and in april when i got my PPL, and before starting the ATPLs I used to think it would be near impossibe) could work in an airline, but apparently it can.
But again, training going modular can be done with 40.000€.
If you have to pay a TR, that means an airline actually hired you. For the people that are asking, I think that would mean succeding.