MPN11,
..."You mean ... they felt they were safe with you? 
"...
Something like that (offering a shoulder to cry on) was always a good start. But beware - drying a woman's tears is one of the most dangerous things known to man !
On the subject of the Spitfire pics, no luck. Says "Error 1" or something like it. But thanks for the advice. Could somebody else print them on a Post, so I could see ? (or is Copyright a bar ?)
Danny.