Not with a rider; but it wouldn't have made any difference, and I would have diverted or returned anyway: my mother didn't raise any heroes!
As I said in an earlier post in which I described how I did these flights: I would check the weather forecast the day before and if it looked questionable, or potentially uncomfortable for the rider, would let them know. Likewise, if it turned out looking bad on the day, I would tell them as early as possible.