To actually answer your question, I'd recommend Clive Hughes' book 'Guide to being a commercial pilot' It's fairly objective and all the details are there.
http://www.pprune.org/forums/showthr...t=clive+hughes
Unlike me, you're the right age to get a cadetship and not have to pay for the training yourself. I'd suggest a search on pprune for the various ones available.
PS I presume you have already booked a trial lesson at your local flying club to check that you like it?