wiggy
Now you're really pushing it! A pp24 LH captain grossing £160k? Have you checked the payscales recently? Maybe if they're LTS!!
Look. It seems you know about your own circumstances, obviously! But you don't know mine, or my close friends.
TBH, anyone including school fees in their ME income, or housing allowance, (because they have no choice but to pay them!) is trying to pull the wool over people's eye!