OK let me square somethings aside for you all.
I am 28years old, of course I know that simulator hours on FSX don't count otherwise everyone with a joystick and knowledge will be in on it..... It was said with a hint of 'I wish'.... I honestly didn't know about the upper age limits and it's something I would be interested in but I guess I need to pass a medical given what i said in my OP.
I can probably put some feelers out in and around The RAF training, UASs, Pilot schemes etc... Spoke to missus and whilst she wasn't exactly over the moon as of yet it's a dream of mine and as they say we only once.
I'm certainly willing to research into this even if it comes to nothing for what ever reason, the only reason I ever counted myself out of it was due to poor eyesight as a child and lack of decent grades at school..... Worth a shot whatever the cost.... nothing to loose..... yet.