This was posted elsewhere earlier today:
Former Red Arrow pilot and war hero Peter Collins killed himself over retirement worries | Bristol Post
Let's leave the yelling about gender, race, politics, unions etc out of this - it goes to show that at any point in our lives any of us, regardless of background or gender may need peer intervention, hand holding etc, and also just maybe we all need to listen a little harder to what is being said by the individual on the other seat.....