Some years ag. My father was staying with us for the weekend. He asked if we could go flying. I said, after checking the weather, it will be a bit rough but doable. It was, I think, 15kts gusting 25, not quite across the runway but forecast to lighter later in the day. So we went to the airfield and started unpacking the Rans from it's box. Another club member turned up and asked if it was OK for flying. I replied that it was good enough for me. He went, (Cessna Reims Rocket) was a bit lairy on take off and a few minutes later returned to do a scary landing. He parked up, tied down and came by us looking a bit green. He didn't speak. He got in his car and went away.
We put the Rans together, pre-flighted and then went to the Isle of Wight for lunch. In the afternoon we returned to base via tea at Old Sarum. It was a bit rough and gusty but no problem. My rule of thumb was if I could unpack the Rans and put it together without it blowing over it was within my wind range limits.
Your pucker factor may be different.