Ok, not seeing some of the issues so lets take an example which is connected to why I was asked to do this;
Some young people have a less than ideal home life, but are still intelligent and do better than expected in early school;
I want to be a pilot.
Girls do not fly aircraft dear, but if you work really hard on your makeup and look pretty you may get to serve the drinks, which is a good job.
Well actually the first female airline pilot was in 1927 and it is common now – some airlines actually prefer to employ women.
You get the general idea...
Rod1