Speak for yourself Hulk. Based on the number of postings, i know who i'd have more belief in.
People can debate till their hearts content. I think its simple. You either want it or you don't. I do. I'm desperate for it. I'm giving up the City Accountant life, as i KNOW the grass is greener on the other side. I may become poorer, I may have to spend time away from home, however, if i enjoy professional/commercial flying as much as i do training in a !!!!ty Cessna/Piper, then i KNOW that the remaining 41 years of my working life will be a lot more happier than the last 4 years in the Rat Race.
If you want it badly enough you will make it work and eventually it will pay off. Yes there are people who will put you off but ultimately yes, we are all Wannabes/experienced pilots but we're all different people.