I don't know how it was learning 10-20 years ago or about aircraft ownership. I am still an aspiring PPL, and I feel that my expectations have tempered compared to when I started learning.
As one progresses through the training, it becomes clear how much time or money are required for this hobby. You might discover things (positive or negative) about the flying club or school.
I guess it is good to go bit by bit and focus on getting the PPL first.